90 percentage of issues could be solved with an honest conversation.
For Real!! So many times in the M I asked my W about what she wanted in bed and how I could do things to improve our sex life. She never never never told me what she wanted. Always said 'I want to make you feel happy' - which is fine once in a while, but sex is a 2 way street. I told her so many times it makes me feel so good when I can please her and I want her to open up to me. After she consistently shutting me down trying a couple of things - nothing too kinky - I just gave up. She didn't even want to talk about it. WTF?
Then we stopped having sex often - partly due to life and work and kids - but I didn't want to have sex where only what I would want was the priority. I want to have a dynamic sexual relationship.
Just so frustrating when W shut down me trying some things and even not wanting to talk about it. What am I supposed to do? I would tell her all the time how amazing her body is and how beautiful she is and how much I want her completely. That also didn't work.
