*Umm, Morpheus? I thought I picked the blue pill.*

Thanks, Acc. This has given me a lot to think about.

I'm finally finding my stability and self-worth outside of the MR. I'm really doing it for me at this point, as I feel reconciliation is practically impossible now. W wants to move this through so fast. I found out that W's L filed for D on Monday.

MIL and FIL are in town for SIL's baby, and they're having a big get together at SIL's house tonight. I've been invited. I think I should go, as this may be the last time we're all together before it really hits the fan. But I think they all know. So I'm almost thinking this might be a bad situation to go into. After we get back home tonight, the plan is to tell the kids about D. Any advice?

Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.