Thanks Cadence, I am actually kind of proud of myself because I thought about saying let me know if you aren't going but then I thought to myself exactly what you said and that is me trying to know his plans, also me asking him to watch the baby would be seen as me trying to control his free night so I dropped all of that and tried to live by Sandi's words of as few words as possible in the text.
After I posted that I ended up replying something different than what I typed, I decided not to even say let me know if you aren't going so I can give the ticket because like you said it's not that important plus I'll have the baby and a baby bag so an extra seat might be nice.
It went like this
H: Am I still allowed to go or no? M: I will email the ticket or leave it at will call. H: Cool, what time are you guys leaving? Hoping to be done at work by 2 M. Not sure. I can't email the ticket so I'll just leave it at will call. H: Okay thanks
Done, no more replies needed from me and I just have to try and be out of the house before he gets home to avoid driving together. The game doesn't start til 8 and I hate that I have to rush out to get away but it is what it is. It will get easier with time.
My poor mom makes me laugh, she says I know you're friends online won't agree with what I say but I think you should tell him why does he expect to go after treating you so terribly all week. She goes but you know better don't listen to me T. I'm not good at this stuff lol. I love how she now refers to you guys as like she is going to get in trouble. We both laughed about it. I said don't worry mom I'm always getting in trouble too! haha
