I definitely see where you are coming from with children. W and I wanted 3, but after S13 was born she didn't want anymore. Which I respected. And her body kept having bad reaction to every form of birth control, so I did the noble thing and got a vasectomy. Which I seriously have been regretting ever since finding out about my W A.
Gave up the thing, I wanted most. And all she can is shrug it off and say that she appreciates. So finding a woman who doesn't want to give birth to any children is going to be an issue if this MR ends. Thinking onbthis just adds to the list of selfish things my W has done. Also at this point would I even want to have children so far apart in age?