You should definitely check, so you know what you are dealing with. Realize that family and livelihood is at risk, so you to know because W will never twll you the truth. Also the reunion is definitely connected. May have hooked up with someone there or just having an EA. There are no coincidences.
Let me give you a breakdown on my own sitch. First time W cheated was apparently last summer. Was having a drink with her cousin and old childhood friends at the bar. Apparently when cousin went to the bathroom. Friends asked if he could kiss her. I guess he was to nervous to make a move as they were teens. So W said yes. And that was the end of it. By the way this guy is married with children.
The second time she cheated/current A. Was on a cruise with her sisters family. OM just happens to her sisters cousin and also married with children. They had sex in the ship se veral times. This guy lives out of state l, but he is the reason she is leaving the MR out if some strange hope he'll leave his family. OM is clearly just entertaining for the sex whenever they meet up again. This took place the week before Thanksgiving.
The week after the A with OM happened. We were visiting family. W got talked into going to another childhood friends home. Apparently she had no interest in him as a teen. But after giving a sob story on how he had a huge crush on her. He asked for a kiss and allowed him to kiss her. Makes you if this guy talked to the other childhood friends since they all grew up in the same area.
Number 4 is a guy in Public Works she worked with 3 years ago. He has a W and kids as well. Not really sure if W has cheatedwith this guy. But W texted him the day after OM kicked her to the curb when his W found out about the A back in December. Public Works guy was a friends she caught up with maybe twice a year. The moment she mentioned possibly divorcing me. Dude told her that he had been interested in her for years. Apparently she says she wasn't interested in him. But they contact each other now several times a month. Believe he might be in the friends zone, but he is trying his best to get betweenbtuem legs. And W is keeping around likely for her own ego I suppose.
But my point is that people from the past always bring up questions of what ifs. There are way too many stories, especially reunions where suddenly the person who didn't notice you in school now notices you as an adult. And that is where the fantasy takes place.
