PS by way of clarification regarding the s*x life I should have added that if we do come through the other side of this mess at least we will have a healthier platform for that side of the relationship (didn't want to look too "forgiving" there)!

Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains