I should add, I'm also not trying to look at the messages, mails, anything. I want to give her her privacy and I know from the last time this happened 12 years ago that it's going down a rabbit hole that will drive me crazy!
Me: 47 Wife: 39 Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1 BD: 7/4/2017 Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017 ?????
