WAS wanting to move across the world - help

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You guessed right Tread.

But, I do need to say that I really don't think there is OM in the picture at the moment. I hope I'm not being naive.
She told me she has no interest at all in anything physical with anyone at the moment.
But, she was telling me that her friends were telling her when she went out while she was out of the country how guys were checking her out.
I think she just wants to feel wanted and attractive. Something I obviously failed to give her in the recent past.

She also had lots of nostalgic reunions with old school friends from 20 years ago whilst she was over there just now and has another big reunion there next week.
Also, her 40th birthday is coming up in a couple of months.

I'm wondering if these are connected or if I'm just grasping at straws????