He is. Ignore the 'allowed' word. I'd take the baby issue out of it too. Keep it super simple so you don't get sucked in...

Just repeat
We were planning to go separately. If you still want your ticket I will email it to you.

Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17