That's almost similar to how things with my W is. My W had a few close sexual assault encounters. Nothing happened to her as far as I know. But her past made me careful on how I handled her sexually. I didn't want to seem like I was making her do anything that she didn't want to. But apparently she wanted a lot more, which is what led to the A. Would have been nice to know this prior, but I believe she didn't want me to judge her. This is one of things that pissed me off about my sitch. My W is judging me based on how she feels. Rather than what I have actually done. 90 percentage of issues could be solved with an honest conversation.
