I love to hear how far you've come. You seem happy and at peace. I completely relate to the wariness about Rs. I'm dating but I realize I put up a wall that I never used to put up before. I think it will be a while before I'm ready to commit--if that ever happens. But I love hearing that you have found someone that makes you happy. There is a peace in enjoying the R for what it is and not feeling the need for everlasting. If it happens that great, but I don't feel like that would be an end goal for me anymore. Partly because I'm cynical now, and partly because I think that expectation caused me to hang on to something I needed to let go of. Maybe it is healthier to not think of it as forever but just enjoying it for what it is today.


40s 2teens M14Y
BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14
BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14
EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues
Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15
D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17