I saw your post on Coverts thread and will respond here. You said you tried GAL and it didn't work. GAL is not a trick, it's for your own we'll being. There is no magic bullet to fix your situation.
Your only option is to move on and live an awesome life without her. As Accuray often says "things have to get worse before they get better". They may mean you get divorced. Divorce is just a legal document that says your not married anymore. Doesn't mean you will never get back together.
One of my best friends parents divorced when he was 12. They hated each other and would argue at his baseball games. Psychology messed him up. His dad remarried his mother never did. His dads second wife passed about five years ago. Three years ago his mom and dad got back together. True story. Like Cadet always says " it's not over to you say it's over.
