I'm with Ginger on the soccer game (and divorce or separation for that matter). I think we all care about you and want to help you, that like Blu says, it is too much advice. You have to dig in and figure out what is best for you. As all these divergent opinions should tell you, there is no right way to do this. There can be regrets and mistakes with any path you choose. Ultimately you and the boys have to live with the decisions you make.
I sure would love to borrow your dad. You are a lucky girl. Have fun at the soccer game, with or without H.
