I guess you're right. I would think that if we're all trying to DB and get our Ws back we wouldn't do that. I know that DBing is about improving ourselves, but if the goal of DBing is to ultimately show our Ws that they made a mistake letting us go, then wouldn't doing what you suggested harm that attempt? I'm not being a jerk (probably naive), but I'm curious. I suppose it all comes down to the W decided on her own that she made a mistake, seeing our "new" selves and then deciding if she wants to come back - is that it?
Married 9, Together 13, Divorce in Progress M: 44, W: 44, S: 7 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/19/17
