LH19 is right. Also, you should keep in mind that being served or going through the actual divorce proceedings are just the legal events. It's the emotional bond that's important, and like LH19 said, you'll feel differently at some other point in time.
I was divorced at the end of September, 2016, and I still harbor a lot of anger about what my XW did to the family, but at the same time, I don't want any harm to come to her. We had many good years together and I'm thankful for that.
