Please read what I wrote to hvyhp about sex starved marriages and then explain to me why you want to save this?
I realize we're just getting your side of the story and seeing her through the key hole you present.
Don't waive anything without talking to a lawyer, you're entitled to child support, alimony and half of your collective assets.
The only way you can convince W that you're emotionally available is for her to see that in your relationships with other people, not with her. You did not make a mistake by DB'ing
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015