Thank you OwnIt and Job.

You are telling me what my intuition is telling me. I just don't like it.

I do expect him to be a parent. I find myself confused at times by his actions. For instance, I see moments where it seems he is trying to parent. So in my mind, I think, he does want to parent.

I should know better. Part of this is me wanting him to step up.

Thanks again Job and OwnIt for your input. I think I needed confirmation from someone else to have the confidence to believe my gut.