I have kept screen shots of everything in the event it does make a difference.
25 - I don't think he's seen a lawyer but I do believe he is being coached by someone that knows this.
He's been talking a lot to EX boss--- the one who's daughter he left me for last time whose couch he lived on ... the ex boss found him the L last time and paid to help him get D from me. So I imagine since they haven't talked in years (NC was agreed upon when we R) that H is asking for his help.
He is such a POS. Came in my room to say goodnight to the boys. Doesn't kiss the baby or anything if I'm holding him god forbid he gets too close to me. He said goodnight to the boys not a word to me, mind you they are laying in bed right next to me so it's not like I'm far away, anyway S9 said you have to kiss mommmy and say goodnight. H acted like he didn't hear and asked what movie they were watching. S9 kept saying it like 5 times and H ignored so I finally said S9 shhh and H walked out.
I get that I'm not saying goodnight or hello or even acknowledging his existence but I feel like this is not good in front of the kids. Should I start doing those things even if he doesn't? I am fine not talking to him but I think it sets a bad example for the boys and I don't want to be stooping to his level.
