ILYBINILWY - OW - what to do next 3

[SJW]

Thanks guys. That is what I was thinking but just wanted some affirmation that I wasn't being mean and just trying to make things difficult as that is how he will see it. He has said before it isn't fair to expect me to stay with friends when he has them. The first weekend won't be an issue as the kids have nothing on and he can take them to his Mum's which although a distance away is near my Mum's and I was going to take them up that week so I can just meet them there on the Sunday night or Monday. After that he's got a problem with DO playing football Saturday mornings and S on Sunday mornings but as you say these are the consequences of his actions.