I agree 100% w/OwnIt. Your h is out to lunch and isn't going to step up to the plate and be the parent that you are expecting him to be. He's not capable of taking care of himself...so how can he be a parent? He's in teenager mode and we all know how teens can be at times.
As for your son's stutter...take your child to the doctor and he/she may recommend a speech therapist or someone who specializes in this field.
Unfortunately, you are having to be both parents for the time being. I know it's difficult...but you can only rely on yourself at the moment.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
