Thanks!! I woke up today promising myself no arguiing. Nothing. So he got upset with me this morning as two employees are not here. He swears I did not tell him. I know I did. And I'm front of our other employees. So next time I will make sure I text him and screenshot said texts so I have proof that I did tell him. It bothers me that he does not hold himself accountable for a lot of his actions. He came from a very abusive household growing up. So he has a hard time accepting fault with himself. That is what leads to our arguments. Because I try to get him to see his faults and he refuses to look. I don't do that now. This was during the relationship. And I would always jump at the chance to show how wrong he was because he always believed himself to be right. I can see now how that would be detrimental to the male or anyone's pysche.
I will fake it until I make it. It's the only way right now and use this board more to vent on so I don't vent on him.
