Odga - keep doing what works. I'd say what you're doing right now (moving forward with your life, meeting new people, going out, taking her at her word by moving your things out) is working - she seems to be having second thoughts. Of course, it would take a LOT more than this to win you back - so don't slip up, just keep doing what you're doing, let her stew in a little more jealousy - it's good for her to feel a little bit of what you had to go through.
