He's a dad. He needs to get living space that can accommodate his children for overnights.
Or he can take them to a hotel, which would be cheaper, since we're only talking two nights a month.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16