He's a dad. He needs to get living space that can accommodate his children for overnights.

Or he can take them to a hotel, which would be cheaper, since we're only talking two nights a month.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16