I don't intend to stop talking to him completely but will do exactly what you say keep it to kids and bills. He called last night and I had a conversation with him about DO getting star of the week but the school hadn't emailed me to let me know so I wasn't at the assembly and was really upset. He said it was such a shame as I have always done everything possibly to attend all special assembly's and knows how much it means to me.
I have just come back from S's leavers assembly from primary school, very emotional. H should have been there but has chosen to be with OW instead. However I am forcing myself not to focus on this but imagine he is working instead as he has been in the past for such occasions.
Thanks SJ
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17