I should also add, just as a nice extra, she admits to unprotected sex with her A's....this is unbelievable...
and today she's frustrated because I'm not really talking to her so she uses this line of "what do you want me to do to make your life easy?"
yet, even with all of this, I would take her back (and maybe many of you would say I'm a fool for this)...at least make an attempt...because we never even made a solid attempt together to work on our issues...it's true that she possibly has had the A's to force me to end the M and this must be considered...
the crazy thing is prior to meeting her, I had a very high sex drive...but I don't believe she did...it's possible her body has changed now....
but I guess I want to know what is a major way to send her the message how I feel and what I expect from her....but without forcing her into a drastic change like "that's it...it's over", etc....should I tell her to leave for the weekend??...or move out?...get tested for STD's immediately?