Filing for custody and support absolutely benefits T, Blu. No one is encouraging her to file for D, however. They're apparently separate issues in Fla. Getting child support takes 3-4 months after a person files for support there, if I'm understanding T correctly. Is that right, T?
H isn't predictable. He's a liar. The *most important people* in this entire equation are those boys. And T has history and experience: H has pulled funding before, and she knows he will do it again - potentially just out of spite.
I believe it is very reasonable advice to say T should file for support/custody asap.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014