I love it! It seems like a lot of folks are really starting to "get it."
Quote: Altho the convo yesterday and the phone convo last night was intersting and showed baby steps and promise from her, I still need to remember not to fall back into the pursuing mode. Keep the mystery and detachment and let her come to me.
If that isn't evidence that you've "gotten it," then I don't know what could be! You keep up the good work....
Odga, The mysterious you got here this far... don't tell her what you are up to, and don't invite her to fly with you... act as if she is NOT in your future... that was working.
Good convo.. .stay detached.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
Lots of us in Boston area... If you wanna try to get together with some of us, why don't you start a thread in Just For Fun?
I can heartily recommend Friday night's at the Burren in Davis Square, if you like live music and dancing. They usually have a great cover band w/a minimal cover ($3).
Scotty and me are both in the Boston area and both going to Va Beach. Discorded may be going too, not sure.
Cheers, Acorn
P.S. Feel free to email me at the email address in the Va Beach emails from MAL.
Hello from Boston - I am in the middle ofmy convention - having a good time - I have contacted some from the Boston group and we will get together later tonight for dinner and etc. Sounds like fun.
Right now, though, I need to go to my morning meetings.
Got back home ok - it is late tho so I will post later on what all I did. Good trip tho and did meet Dotto, Acorn, and Scott from Boston. (a fun bunch - looking forward to seeing them again at the beach)
C called me today around 11:30 at first asked me if I had a good time in Boston. I told her just a bit and she then asked me if I knew where the key to the riding lawnmower was. I told her that it was over in my apartment and that I was not aware that she wanted to keep the mower. She had had someone over to fix it but w/o the key could not. I told her that I would bring the key over tonight after my workout (just 15 mins from her house) to and she could have the mech come back to fix it. and she agreed that we would talk about the mower when I came over. She also did stated that she did not know when I got back into town and then asked some of the things I did in Boston. After af few minutes of chitchat on that we hung up.
After working out I started over to her house and called on the cell to let her know I was on the way but no answer. I then called her cell and no answer. After a few minutes I got a call from C from her cell but it turned out to be her Sis. They were over at one of her favorate restuarants doing a margarietta. Sis asked me bunches about my Boston trip, what I did, when I got back, etc, etc. She then asked about me dropping off the key to the mower and I said I could just open the garage door and put it in the mower and close every thing back up. After doint that, I called Sis back on her own phone and told her to tell C that the key was in the mower and all was locked back up.
In talkine w/ sis she told me that C and her talked about me over the weekend but did not say what about.
Well that is it. Don't know what it all means.????
