Oh okay, I didn't think to look at it that way I thought pursuit and distance was meant in a relationship way if that makes sense... like him coming closer to ask about me, wandering what I'm doing, etc that kind of pursuit.
I do not respond to texts unless they ask a question. Like if he asks if we need anything, I reply no thanks or we're good. Last night he text that he was coming to the house at 8pm, I didn't respond because it didn't necessitate one. The text I sent later on about not to come was because it was so late.
So should I not respond even when he asks if I need anything? I could see that causing more animosity. But if you guys think that's what's best I'll do it. That's the only communication we have is if I respond to that. Other then that we do not talk at all. He doesn't say hello or goodnight,etc. and I had been saying hello or goodnight to him if he didn't say it to me but I've stopped.
