Thanks, doodler. I realize W is blowing smoke. She definitely knows what buttons to push. The hard part is that even when I'm aware she's doing it, it's still hard for it to not affect me.

Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.