thank you for the tips...

she just texted me saying "I can be gone for the weekend or ever...you need to let me know what you want to make your life easier"....how should I respond to this?

I've just scheduled a coaching session for next week

...what would I expect her hitting rock bottom and express true remorse to look like?

..you're saying I should totally avoid prodding her about anything right now?

...my desire is to go into deep discussions about why she did it, etc...but whats the DB'ing smart way?
..do i avoid having dinner with her and stuff?....do i still be nice? it's hard to smile when I see her right now..i feel disgusted and paralyzed

if there's a letter which I help write to the OM, what do you think the content would be??....


Me 42 Her 47
M 10yrs