Yes, and it pisses me off, but I can't change the locks until the divorce is final. Which is, thankfully, going to happen on Tuesday.
I've lived this before, in an even worse situation. XW #1, who had moved in with her boyfriend on BD day actually cut the intruder chain off my front door one night while I was in bed to get in the house (not for access to the house, but because she wanted to make me suffer for something) I actually called the police, and was told "tough luck, you're still married and she has a right to the house even though she doesn't live there anymore. If she comes in and something happens, call us back and we'll come out there and figure things out" which I translated as "call us again at your peril of being arrested."
[censored] when the law actively supports someone running roughshod over your boundaries, right? "Violated" doesn't begin to describe the feeling.
Your point about TV etc is taken. I'd have a problem with that. Clothes, not so much (she's going to be wearing different outfits on exchange days most weeks, anyway).
