Hi T. I don't have anything to add. I'm a newbie to this whole disastrous WH sitch. But I basically read all your posts and I am so sorry you are in this sitch again. But I wanted you to know you are an inspiration to me. I too feel like I'm spiraling out of control. One minute I'm screaming mad and the next I know I will be ok if H never comes back. I have admiration for you because of how you are handling things. I am always angry at H. And even tho I know I need to keep my mouth shut I keep spewing forth my anger. All this advice that people have given you has helped me so much. My H has moved into his own little rental home but not come and got his stuff. He doesn't talk divorce, but he says he's done. We still work together every day. Which is so hard to detach when I see him everyday. But anyways you are my inspiration. I am in awe of how you have handled things and compose yourself. So thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry you are here. But I wanted to you to know how much of a help you and the other posters have been. Thank you.
