Odga,
The mysterious you got here this far... don't tell her what you are up to, and don't invite her to fly with you... act as if she is NOT in your future... that was working.

Good convo.. .stay detached.

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.