Hi Kitti and Deb - that was my thought exactly - and she is asking me a lot of questions about GF - is she a keeper, what did you do, is anyone else going with you to Boston. etc.
Also in talking with her yesterday she said she was very proud of me for learning to fly. I told her that when I get my license I was going to fly down to south Georgia to see my Daughter and to the Knoxville area to see my Brother. Also told her that we could fly to another area of South Georgia to see her other sis if she wanted to. She also clearly admitted that she was going throug MLC. I reminded her that not only that but she had the change of life also at the same time with the related harmone changes which really messed with her emotions and she was going through the burn out with her job too. But I let her know that I believed in her work and in her and I was happy I could be there to give her a hug when she needed one. I hope it gives her lots to think about.
Altho the convo yesterday and the phone convo last night was intersting and showed baby steps and promise from her, I still need to remember not to fall back into the pursuing mode. Keep the mystery and detachment and let her come to me.
