You're right....it does seem insincere to get a sticky with this info
...she asked me "what are the things you want?" And then said "it doesn't mean you're going to get them"
There's no doub the lack of intimacy is the prime reason we are where we are...but I'm baffled why my W couldn't ever say "lets get help together" and felt this was the best alternative....of course we both have needs...at a certain point she was unwilling to communicate about them...she claims she was never able to tell me what she wants....and that I should've been able to figure it out "like other guys"...is it such a crime for her to tell me?....or teach me?
People have mentioned a "no contact" letter for OM....how does that work?...is it a letter she sends the OM?
I still need to fully understand where she is and whether she feels there is any chance of R in this M....at this point all I'm asking for is a solid sincere attempt
I'm wondering do I keep total distance from her and ignore her or do I try and spend time with her at this point and discuss things in small trickles? It's damn tough to suppress the anger and pain right now
