I dont believe its all my fault but i do go into fix-it mode when it comes to problems. And i ask my self what could i have done differently. Is there a difference between angry and frustrated i guess as i sit here typing im frustrated at the situation and my wife because she has no clear understanding her issues let alone what might be happening to our marriage. My wife is a firm believer that if its said it cant be taken off the table so the devorce comment is always in the back of my mind. Im trying to move forward GAL as this forum puts it a hard thing to do because we were so involved with each others life im not kidding when i say my wife was my best friend. Im confused because my wife says on multiple occassions she wants to regain our friendship but then runs from the family with no real reason for it. Will literally jump up almost turn in a cicle and say i have to go and walk out.
I quess i feel that if i hadn't became distant a couple years back my family would not be going through this now. My wife and kids always were top on my list and when my arm chair and TV replaced them for a time i believe it overwelmed my wife.
i have thanked her for sticking by me and also have told her that i will be there for her when she needs help or someone to talk to. Patience something i will need to develop in a hurry
