Journal: two days ago W came home in the morning, after a few mins, I asked her to give me a few minutes to talk about our family business, if she was willing to cont. her negligence towards the business, and if she understood that our family business was the only thing not in turmoil at this point and was not going in right direction. She immediately started blaming and included the R talk with the original convo and how I destroyed her life and cried about our past years. I validated best I could. I brought up OM and referred to him by his FN, she seemed shocked that I knew more about him. She asked if I been spying, I said it was a small world. She said he had been there for her when she needed the most. All last week she had been crying all night and one night been in the hospital because she couldnt breathe. I didnt respond to that. She said he is an amazing person and they have no PR and she will gladly turn it into one if he asked but he is not about that. I didnt respond. We discussed that S9 needs more attention from both of us. We both agreed. I told her I will not initiate a D but I will respect her decision if she decided to go through with it. I also said I was no longer worried about us. I was working on myself to be a better person, and she should continue to do whatever makes her happy and we will see if our paths crossed. I also suggested she gets a separate place for a while she denied. She seemed a bit disturbed about one of my GAL activities, but we didnt go in detail. Got ready and went to work. She joined a couple of hours later and had a great day. Went to gym at night, after spending abour an hour with S9. She went out after spending some time with me before I arrived home. She had returned before I came back from gym. We both slept in MBR, had a good sleep. How many DB rules did I break?
