I have DB and DR both are already showing signs of wear i have been reading them so much, im am very concerned because my waw and i have contact at least 3 times a week if not more and when she left i did all the wrong things to convince her to stay. Im having a hard time not snooping and checking on her wareabouts weekends are the worst i have no reason to think there is a OM but imagination runs wild friday to sunday. Contact is her choice and often she thanks me for a good evening or time. Ever night since she has left i have texted a good night to her orher then that i limit first contact as much as possible.
She is in contact with the kids daily and on multiple occasions has told them we are moving in the right direction as a couple and that she is thinking about coming home.
I just dont know what my next steps are 4 months of her out of the house and at a loss as to continue??
