[quote=T384]Yes I don't want to spend a ton of money but I also want someone that's going to get what's best for the kids and I. since my h has hired a pit bull, frankly, I wish I had. Seems H WANTS to litigate b/c there's no statute saying he can be compelled to work until he's 65, but other case law saying EVEN IF he quit his job (a lie) that he can be compelled to work until then.
So I guess despite having a no fault divorce and no custody issues, we are going to Trial!
H's 'offer" seems to be "good luck", so I don't have much of a choice. But it turns out it sure would have been easier if my L had started out with a more aggressive posture.
I really feel that IF this is a tactic by h, and it may be, we could have ended it by now.
And IF H has grabbed our nest egg (against court orders which matter NOT to h)
then what? I"m screwed. And h gets away with it...
You never want a L who churns fees (and informs the other side of something, weeks after you tell them, rather than right away, prolonging the ordeal).
I"m NOT saying to hire an $$hole, but you need a poker player at least...and not one who bluffs in a way they won't back up with action.
Like boundaries that need enforcing...
That's my .02
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
