Boston Dad in need of Help

[Teppo]

You're right, Acc, I am panicking. I still love my W and just want to let her know I still care for her despite all that is happening. Per your advice, and of others here, I'm keeping my feelings to myself and this Board and won't talk to her or try to reason with her.

I have to admit, being a part of the DB community has certainly help get me ready for this day. I don't know if DBing will work in my situation, but it has certainly made me a better person and forced me to do a lot of self reflection. I'm really enjoying my GAL. I just want to get the D over with now and get back to enjoying life again. My biggest worry is finding and affording a decent place to live.