Yes I don't want to spend a ton of money but I also want someone that's going to get what's best for the kids and I. H and I agreed last time it was best for the kids to stay in their home Monday through Friday overnight and he could come spend two nights a week with them but that they should be in their home during the school week. Then he went back on that which is why I think it's a waste of my time to try and get him to come to terms and to be honest I won't bend on anything that I don't have to. This is what he wanted and this is what he had to do to take away from 100% attention to the boys, the new baby, and my school work so I'm not going to go out of my way to make it easy on him. BUT with that said IF there is a way that benefits the kids and I and saves me money I'm all for it.
I ended up sending H a text just now 1025pm - H its getting late, I just put the baby down, s6 is sleeping. And S9 is about to go to bed, no need to come here to help.
Each day he just gets worse and worse. He hasn't held the baby since Sunday. I gave him the baby the other night when he was fussing and he had him in the swing. He hasn't spent anytime with the boys since Saturday night. But whatever, hopefully he's just showing me he doesn't want them.
