Have been surfing the threads for about 2 months. I quess its time to jump in with both feet.
March recieved the lLYBIDLY. 25 years together a son 16and daughter 18. Marriage has been good with some small issues that always seemed to get worked out. My W looked at me that night said she needed to leave and figure things out. Took 20 minutes to pack cloths talk with each of the kids for 2-4 minutes and left. Have been dealing with the fall out ever since. Still have regular contact with W but everything seems to be my fault and only thing that w can remeber are 4 arguements over a multi year period. She has limited contact with old friends and is easily offended and will even go no contact with the kids. A little info on me major job change 5 years ago 3 years ago i let it overwelm me and shut down on my family quit going out just became a couch patato. My wife held things together august of last year i notice some suttle changes in my wife and i tried to reingage with her and the family it seemed to frustrate her and rather then step back i started to push trying to make up for my lack of involvement. So long ztory short she noticed i was trying but she feels empty in side and doesn,t want to try. Has left and is looking into Devorce as well as making some wild claims about my conduct and my comittment to the marrige.
