I think you should wait. I don't think you are ready. I think you still have a lot of feelings for her. There I said it. And when you do decide to file, please let that be separate from all the other people and small details.

And in terms of you looking petty from half truths? I doubt it. People will make their own judgments and opinions based on what they see. And what you put out there will change their minds. If not, F-um!

My H did the most dirt bag thing in the world. As far as I can see, all of our friends and family support him and us. Why? Because he has made things better, he is accountable, and each day he shows that he is remorseful and overall a good man. Even when I gripe and moan about him to my girlfriends--they listen and validate because they care about me--but they still know and see that he is a great guy that happened to royally F up a couple years ago.

Blu

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela