Hey Cadence, I always seem to be posting simultaneously with you.
yes, I know I don't need his permission, I didn't mean it that way about filing, I was asking for everyone's opinion on what you guys thought was best.
And just so you know, I appreciate the nitpicking... It helps me.
I took SO many notes last time and haven't started much but I can go back to my posts for dates. Plus, he texts me most nights when he says he is leaving work and its uusally around 9pm (he commutes like me) so I have that evidence or record to show that he obviously doesn't get to the house until 10pm.
As far as the conversation about him not coming here, I purposely have not sent it via text and only when we are in person at the house and catching H off guard because I don't want record that I told him to leave, that he could spin it around that he wasn't around the kids because I made him leave the home. So that's why I wont send it in a text.
yes the letter was a sign, but it was also a sign that maybe this isn't supposed to work out. That I'm not the person for him to keep him interested and not feeling like he has to stray off for another woman...
I took pictures of the suspension boxes and of the receipt... the steroids are in a box so I found tape to tape it back up but I'm not sure i can open it without him knowing... I'm choosing to say nothing and play the stupid little housewife so he will feel more safe to continue to do things and let his guard down, like leading a cow to the slaughter house
