I am toying with filing for custody and support without having a conversation with him. What do you think about that? Does a conversation need to be had or should I just file without talking?
I think that would be amazing! If you have it in you to do it, DO IT. I only pitched the conversation idea because I thought it would be a meeting place between where you are and where we all agree you need to be.
FILE! No advanced warning to H. Just do it. And watch his head spin.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
