odga,
You deserve to be happy, you deserve to have someone love you. I say go for it.

I agree with Cindy on your convictions... if we don't stand up for something who will?
PS LOVED you asking for your blue pills back... LOVED THAT.

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.