This actually some great advice. I guess my W wants more excitement in her life, but all she does is sit in front of the tv or computer. And this is a person who claims that she will be better off without me. But yet I am the one going out and doing so much now. You are definitely right about the 180 changes and GAL being things that should regain the respect of the WW.
And I am glad that you brought up that doing all this work will place us in an odd position. Talking with my IC yesterday, I admitted to feeling much better about myself. And all the activities I was getting into. Mentioned that my W seemed like she wasn't even worth the trouble. And that didn't want her to ruin the things I had going on.
Felt bad about saying that, but it just seems that I am outgrowing my W. And realizing that the things I am are things she would never join in or in the pastbhas discouraged me from doing.
