Cindy - I agree with you - if she does not like my views then she can stear away from that topic. I do not feel that I can be a yes man on that as that would not be a true friend. If she wants a true friend I will be one but if she wants a yes man then she can find someone else.
Also she said she may not continue to see her counselor (same one I am going to in about 4 hours) I plan to ask counselor the same question and if she feels it is ok to cheat on spouse as long as you feel good about it. if she does not have the same views as I do then I will pay her for tonight and walk out. There are a lot of personal counselors that will tell someone that if you feel it is right to cheat on spouse then go ahead. I will not stay with that kind of Counselor.
with that said, I also told C that I likely will not continue w/ counselor after tonight either and that if she quits too then we should just counsel each other and same some $
