I think all these spouses read the same books ... mine has said the exact same stuff.

You know not to try and reason with her and I'm really sorry you heard that news.

Drop the rope and move on with your life ... have hope but don't let it hold you back. Let her see the guy she fell in love with moving forward and her being left in the dust.

Easier said then done ... I know... but it's the right choice. She has to see what she's losing.




Oh and ... don't communicate about the D. If she asks about it or has specific questions let the L deal wth it.

My answer every time was hmm I'll have to get with my L about that or I'll have to check with my L or I'll have my L reach out to yours.

You're paying your L to be the bad guy ...

Last edited by Cadet; 07/19/17 06:25 PM. Reason: Combine posts

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