Originally Posted By: holding
W slept in the guest bedroom again. We agreed to tell the kids on Saturday. Hope we can fake it until then - S14 was asking why W slept separate last night. W and I are discussing the talk tonight. I'm not backing down on my position.

My poor kids.
I have learned from my sitch when my wife slept in D11's room a couple nights last week that it is not your job to explain to your S14 why mom slept in different room. All I said was I went to bed before mom and didn't know where she slept, go ask her.
I will pray for your kids as well, I hate that my WW/WAS is only thinking about herself right now, it takes both parents to raise children and the person who I thought I knew is no longer around. This alien of a person is now in my life attempting to be a parent that is failing miserably at what she used to be very good at. Sad!!!


Me 47 WW 44
T25 yrs M20
S18 S14 D12
Divorced 3/12/2018